On the recent vlog of celebrity couple Neil Arce and Angel Locsin, their good friend Bea Alonzo talked about her realizations after being “ghosted” by her ex boyfriend, Gerald Anderson.
During their heart to heart talk, Bea shared her opinion about having a “closure” on a relationship.
“I think closure is overrated. But having respect to talk to the other person for a breakup, I think yun yung pinakaimportante.
“Sabihin mo naman kung makikipag-break.” she said.
Added her, she felt anger during her journey to healing especially after she happened to pass by a certain location in El Nido, Palawan, which holds quite genuine memories with Gerald.
“Bigla na lang merong nag-flash na mga memories kasi nagpunta kami doon dati.
“And hindi rin to badmouth anyone, but feeling ko, hindi iyon [relationship] mabuti para sa aming dalawa.” the Kapamilya actress stated.
“Kasi nung na-ghost ako, nagalit ako. Doon lang ako nagalit.”
“Biruin mo, pinatawad ko siya nang pinatawad, pinatawad at pinatawad pa, di ba?
“Mabuti na rin na wala na. I was taken out of that miserable state.” she continued.
When told that she might be hurt because of the break up was all of a sudden, the ABS CBN star defended her state.
“Hindi ka kasi nabigyan ng pagkakataong marinig kung ano yung naging mali mo.
“O kung ano yung naging mali ng relasyon, kung bakit pwede na lang i-drop nang ganoon.
“The mere fact na parang dinrop yung relasyon, parang ibig sabihin, hindi nagma-matter. So, pakiramdam mo, parang hindi ka nag-matter.”
At the end of the vlog, Bea clarified that she has already moved on and is currently happy with her state: much stronger and better.
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